So after hashing #grownassman, I decided to follow it. What I found was most totally ghetto posts, but then I saw something distinctly different, so I read it. I liked it, so here it is:
Note that while a grown ass man says what he feels, etc., it may be necessary for him to be cool and just have fun. Basically, he’s not going to worry about the relationship, since that will take care of itself. No, his job is to have fun and be happy. This means “Don’t think too much or at least keep your mouth shut and don’t be a drama queen.”
As Cindy Lauper best said, girls just want to have fun.