One thing that’s challenging is being cool, well, not for me, but for most people. You know me – I define “stellar cool”…. It is important a lot of time with the female-types. Guys should be interested in them, be a gentleman, and just make them laugh.
Quite frankly, that’s important for always, not just the beginning.
One trick from my play book is to send the lady a text message whenever you want. It’s a play that should make them like you… Guess what? It never works. Keep those feelings bottled up until you see her…. after you’ve been dating for a while.
Be cool in the beginning. The big problem is that guys may come off as aggressive if they’re too enthusiastic. It’s important that you take time to get to know one another so the timing can happen right. This is because guys are barbarians and have a bad rep.
Timing is so important, and it’s one of the hardest things to grasp.
Be cool, but still be nice. As most things that are good, it’s s precarious balance. Of course, there’s a song about this kind of thing: